Deep Conversation Starters for Couples - How to Grow Your Intimacy.

Feb 4

We’ve all been there, listening to the same story about great-Aunt Ruth again…or discussing the logistics of kids’ schedules and never moving deeper. It is easy to drift into the same conversation topics and tell the same stories when you are in a long-term relationship.

It can be hard to choose to be vulnerable and open up, especially if you have been through a divorce. But great conversations can take you from blah and boring to a relationship that is flourishing.

We’ve centered our Deep Conversation Starters around the four types of intimacy to begin your journey.

Emotional Intimacy

What is something you’ve always wanted to try, but you are nervous about?
What do you think you’d like to do differently in this relationship compared toy our previous relationship(s)?
What is your greatest fear at work?

Intellectual Intimacy

Should all people go to college?
If you had a million dollars to start a business, what would you do?
What is your favorite book, and why does it resonate with you?

Spiritual Intimacy

How have you been connecting to God lately?
What spiritual discipline do you want to deepen in the next year?
Which of God’s attributes do you see in your life right now?

Physical Intimacy

What did you first notice about my physical appearance when we were dating?
Are you satisfied with our current sexual intimacy? Is there anything that you would like to change or explore?
What is one thing I can do to enhance our sexual intimacy

Whether you are headed out on a playful date night or just need a meaningful night together, we’ve created an interactive tool packed with 36 questions, to start the conversation about your relationship.